Can i sue a guy who film when we had sex. He is making me dump my bf?

Im about ur age and i understand the fear in not wanting ur parents to kno anything about u and not wanting anyone u dont kno to well to kno soo what i would do is tell ur friend to report to the police that this boy did this to you but tell her to not tell the cop your name because ur embarassed or scared or something.. idk if itll work for sure but i think it sounds like it might work as long as the poice officer isnt a jerk and he believes ur friend about everything ... or get a guy friend that u trust to beat the crap outa this mofo!!! thats honestly what i would do but try both and hopefully somethin will work for ya!!